Getting more attention from the person you love

This question was put to me and I thought that it is best answered through this blog so that others can read and apply it to themselves, if that is what they need/want.

Some times it happens that you put in more love and energy into a relationship than the other person. You send more SMS's, emails, make more calls, arrange more meetings, etc.

The other person, and in this case let's assume that it is your partner, say "Jack", puts in much less effort and when you demand more attention, Jack pretends as if he does not understand what you  mean, because he is giving it all that he's got, which in your estimate is not enough.

What should you do?

1. Stop asking/fighting for it?
2. Ask more, fight more?
3. Pretend that all is okay? And that you are the one who is being unreasonable in even wanting more attention?
4. Find someone else?

From the above options, what approach suits you the most?

The person who is not giving you enough attention is probably pushing your buttons and you are reacting, feeling insecure.

Your self-worth is getting hurt and it does not feel good to be in that relationship.

Here is a question for you. How is your relationship with your SELF?

Do you stand in front of the mirror and praise yourself?

Do you buy yourself a massage and other nice things?

Are you your own Valentine?

Everyone else is a mirror to you. How you treat yourself matters.

Do you go to the gym and keep your promises of eating right?

Are you happy?

Try this for some time and you will find that your universe changes to keep up with you and show you how beautiful and special you really are.

Love yourself completely.

I'm not talking about being selfish. As you love yourself more, you will have more love to give others.

Establish the best relationship with your SELF and watch the world change around you.

Love and light
Sugandhi Iyer

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Notice anything nice about you today? Is there anything that you achieved, maybe a change in your perception of things? That is enough reason to celebrate. If you noticed that you are beautiful and special today, that in itself is enough to bring about a shift in your vibrations, that others will then notice.

Spirituality and success need not be complicated. Just allow positive energy sources into your life on a daily basis.

Choose your sources and inputs wisely and don't allow inputs that give you mixed information in, because sorting through those huge volumes of mixed information to arrive at only the positive in it, can leave you winded with too much trial and error happening.

Creation happiness

In order to create something that you want, you must feel happy about it first. If the creation of it upsets you and/or you cannot even feel good about what is waiting for you, then the creation process will be affected.

Feeling enthusiam really helps, in fact it is the energy of enthusiasm that feeds your creations making them strong and lasting.

To understand what you want though, it is good to study the different elements of what you want and how it will make you feel in the long run. That gives you a fair idea of that which you are trying to create, and help you in its manifestation.

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Is manifestation spiritual?

I think so. Do you?

Is'nt it spirit that manifests life? Is'nt it spirit that takes on form that is life? Why then do some people differentiate between manifestation and spirituality, treating manifestation as if it were spirit's step sister? Any opinions?

Lots of love
Sugandhi

Speed Up Things

In life, we can either speed up or slow down energy. As contributive to the speeding up of things we must speed up our vibrations ourselves, unless ofcourse things have to be deliberately slow.

When I sing, I know that when I want to sing fast songs, I cannot have somoone slow following me. The whole effect changes.

Everything has to speed up now. We all speak of the economy, etc., but the truth is that it is reflective of our consciousness. A slow consciousness, slow results. I call it joyful speeding up.

And yet I am so much at rest even now. It's wonderful the way that we can speed up and yet rest at the same time. I call it restful speed! LOVE!

Success in business, and life

Many success gurus exist nowadays and each person has something to offer since they have realized something of value in life and brought it forward to teach people.

But what is it that really makes you successful in business and life?

It is something that you create that is unique to you. It is YOU!

This you is what you bring into your business and create a style with it.

This 'you' is what sells, and from this 'you' is created a product. You products reflect what you believe to be true and what you want to offer to the world.

So if people start to believe and trust in this 'you' they will buy your product.

Infact if you take this principle and apply it to life, you will get to understand that your life partners are also investing into you, the person.

So develop yourself by seeing what is unique in you, the person, and then let go of what you think will not sell.